How to attract people?
Are you a person who can easily win people’s hearts? Do people enjoy being around you? Do people find you approachable?
The ability to attract people and win people’s hearts is a skill that successful people have. They are able to attract people to them without effort as if it is some kind of magic.
Have you ever met someone who seldom smiles? What did you think of that person? Did you have a close rapport?
Studies show that a sincere smile has a powerful affect in winning people‘s hearts. When you sincerely smile at someone, that sends a message to others that you like them and appreciate their company and that creates an ambience of friendship between people. Smiling at people is the key to winning people’s hearts as people have enough problems and do not want to deal with someone who has problems and always complains.
Once upon a time there was a guy who rarely smiles and very serious in life. His wife and colleagues always complain that he never smiles. All of his colleagues began to turn away from him as he is not approachable and seldom smiles. Then, one of his closest friends asked him if he knows the reason why everyone goes away from him. The guy said he does not know. Then, his friend told him the main reason no one talks to him is because he rarely smiles and that people find him unapproachable. People like to be around people who smile and ease their difficulties. Afterwards, the man started to smile to everyone he meets and after a short time, people started to talk to him and enjoy being with him.
Can you see what the power of smiling can do?
Keys to a beautiful smile
1. When you smile, try to mean it. Let the smile come out of your heart.
2. Strive to make your smile have a meaning.
Of course, you are not going to have a smile on your face all day long, otherwise you will look like a clown. However, smiling when you run into a friend, colleague, or someone , make things much easier and make people find you more friendly and approachable.
Law of Attraction
What is the law of attraction? Is it real?Law of attraction is a law that will help you attract whatever you want in your life. Have you ever wondered how some people seem to be so lucky and get things easily? Have you ever wondered why some people are rich and some are poor? Have you wondered why some people are healthy and some are ill most of the time? I am sure you have. All of these successful, happy, rich people use the law of attraction consciously or unconsciously, which is why they attract things easily to them. They know that they have a power in the subconscious mind and that they can attract success and achieve their goals.
People who don’t get the law of attraction to work for them, don’t really understand the law of attraction in depth. Some people think that the law of attraction is all about asking, believing, and then receiving. While these three things are important, still the law of attraction is about many more things.
Let me give you an example, let’s say you have a History exam with the whole book and you study only one chapter of the book, do you think you will pass and get a good grade? Of course not. How can you expect to get a good grade when you study only one chapter? What about the other chapters? The same goes for the law of attraction, you can’t just study one aspect of the law of attraction and expect to get marvelous results. In my book “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals“ I mentioned that some people think that by asking, visualizing, and believing they are going to get their goals. What they don’t know is they have left out many things such as taking action, having gratitude, concentration, persistence among other things.
The law of attraction states that you get in life whatever you think and feel most of the days. If you think and feel that you life is boring, dull, then your life will be boring and you won‘t take action to improve it. If you keep thinking about success and your goals positively and passionately, then those thoughts will lead you to taking action and will lead you to persist, have belief, and that is exactly what you will get success and your goals.
You see, thoughts are powerful and if they are repeated constantly along with strong passion, belief, focus, persistence, and then taking action they will come true. GUARANTEED! That is why you should think, focus, and concentrate on the things you want and desire instead of focusing on what you do not want. Everything starts with your thoughts. The more you concentrate on what you want in a positive way, the more you will persevere, believe and keep taking action toward your goals, the faster you will manifest whatever you desire.
Remember to make the law of attraction work for you, you need to know what you want out of life, have strong will, strong belief, ability to concentrate, the ability to visualize, the ability to persevere, the ability to take action, and persevere. You have to believe that you will get whatever you ask for and expect to get it. You also need to show gratitude to God. Why should God give you what you ask for if you don’t appreciate what you have already? Always, show that you are appreciative and thankful of what you have right now and always bless people for having wealth, happiness, success and everything else in their lives. This is what the law of attraction is about. It is about all that is mentioned above, not just asking, believing, and receiving.
Everyone talks about the power of gratitude from famous experts such as Joseph Murphy, Napoleon Hill, and Wallace Wattles. I my book, “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals,” I mentioned that you have to give thanks to God who created all of us, so you get more of the same. Give thanks for having food, water, roof over your head, health, success, money and all the other blessings that God has given you. How can you expect God (the universe for those who don’t believe in God) to grant you your wish while you are not appreciating what you have already? Appreciate what you have and feel the abundance. For instance, if you drink some water, say, “thank you God for this water“ and mean it. If you buy something, give thanks to God for giving you money to buy it. Look at the Japanese, whenever they buy something, they give blessings for what they buy. Showing gratitude can do wonders.
2. Give blessings to people-
Studies show that the more you bless other people for having health, wealth, and success, the faster you will get such things. If you see someone has something you want, it is important to wish them more success and prosperity. If for example, you want wealth, and you see someone wealthy, instead of envying that person, you should wish them more wealth and success. You can say, “Isn’t that nice that this person has wealth and lots of money? I wish them more wealth, success, and blessings.” It is crucial that you really mean what you are saying. Do not criticize people for having something you want and desire. If you criticize someone for having money and wealth, you will not get money because you are criticizing it. How can money and wealth come to you if you keep criticizing it?
3. Ask
Ask God for what you want and desire. Let me give you an example, if you want to buy a car, don’t you have to ask the car dealer first before you buy it? If you want to go to college, don’t first have to apply and tell them you want to join? The same thing applies for achieving your goals. You have to ask God to give you whatever you desire. Don’t be shy, ask God and he will answer.
4. Visualization-
Studies have shown that people who visualize, achieve their goals faster since visualizing makes you concentrate on your goals. You should visualize and concentrate on your goals around two times a day for 10 to 15 minutes each time. As Albert Einstein says, “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” Whatever you visualize, you will get in the future. Let me give you an example, there is a student studying for his exam tomorrow. He keeps thinking and imagining that the exam is hard and that he is not going to do well in it. Exam day is here and the student enters the exam room. The teacher gives the student the test and guess what the student finds? You guessed it, the exam is hard just as he imagined. You should know that visualization is a powerful step of getting the law of attraction to work for you.
5. Affirmations-
In order for affirmations to work, you first have to understand and work on controlling your thoughts and emotions, otherwise, if you repeat affirmations all day, you probably won’t get results as you will be saying affirmations without believing in them. Assuming you have already worked on your thoughts and emotions. Through out the day, affirm what you have visualized. Keep your goal in your mind. Remind yourself that you are on the way to success. What is really good about affirmations is that they help keep you focused positively on your goals.
6. Take action-
Without taking action, you accomplish nothing. It is action that produces tangible results. Some people believe they can visualize and achieve all their goals without taking action. Do you think Roger Bannister would have been able to run a mile in less than four minutes if he didn’t take action and if he didn’t train his body? Do you think Bill Gates would have become billionaire if he didn’t put his ideas into action? There is no success, without action, so make sure you learn how to take massive action, so you can achieve whatever you want.
7. Persistence-
How many people do you know that were too close to getting what they want, but they gave up too soon? Unfortunately, many people give up as soon as they face an obstacle. Persistence is the key to achieving your goals.
It is necessary to follow all those steps mentioned, not just one of them to get the law of attraction to work for you.
Let me give you an example, let’s say you have a History exam with the whole book and you study only one chapter of the book, do you think you will pass and get a good grade? Of course not. How can you expect to get a good grade when you study only one chapter? What about the other chapters? The same goes for the law of attraction, you can’t just study one aspect of the law of attraction and expect to get marvelous results. In my book “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals“ I mentioned that some people think that by asking, visualizing, and believing they are going to get their goals. What they don’t know is they have left out many things such as taking action, having gratitude, concentration, persistence among other things.
The law of attraction states that you get in life whatever you think and feel most of the days. If you think and feel that you life is boring, dull, then your life will be boring and you won‘t take action to improve it. If you keep thinking about success and your goals positively and passionately, then those thoughts will lead you to taking action and will lead you to persist, have belief, and that is exactly what you will get success and your goals.
You see, thoughts are powerful and if they are repeated constantly along with strong passion, belief, focus, persistence, and then taking action they will come true. GUARANTEED! That is why you should think, focus, and concentrate on the things you want and desire instead of focusing on what you do not want. Everything starts with your thoughts. The more you concentrate on what you want in a positive way, the more you will persevere, believe and keep taking action toward your goals, the faster you will manifest whatever you desire.
Remember to make the law of attraction work for you, you need to know what you want out of life, have strong will, strong belief, ability to concentrate, the ability to visualize, the ability to persevere, the ability to take action, and persevere. You have to believe that you will get whatever you ask for and expect to get it. You also need to show gratitude to God. Why should God give you what you ask for if you don’t appreciate what you have already? Always, show that you are appreciative and thankful of what you have right now and always bless people for having wealth, happiness, success and everything else in their lives. This is what the law of attraction is about. It is about all that is mentioned above, not just asking, believing, and receiving.
How to get the law of attraction to work for you?
Some people try to apply the law of attraction in their lives and don’t succeed. They say that they concentrated, visualized, were positive, asked and believed, but nothing has manifested. As I mentioned in my previous article “what is the law of attraction?“ some people do not manifest what they want is because they have not followed all the steps that the person must take to achieve his goals whether it is negative thoughts, envying people, lack of gratitude, lack of planning, lack of action or lack of persistence.Below you will find some powerful steps that will make the law of attraction work for you:
1. Power of gratitude-Everyone talks about the power of gratitude from famous experts such as Joseph Murphy, Napoleon Hill, and Wallace Wattles. I my book, “the ultimate guide to achieve your goals,” I mentioned that you have to give thanks to God who created all of us, so you get more of the same. Give thanks for having food, water, roof over your head, health, success, money and all the other blessings that God has given you. How can you expect God (the universe for those who don’t believe in God) to grant you your wish while you are not appreciating what you have already? Appreciate what you have and feel the abundance. For instance, if you drink some water, say, “thank you God for this water“ and mean it. If you buy something, give thanks to God for giving you money to buy it. Look at the Japanese, whenever they buy something, they give blessings for what they buy. Showing gratitude can do wonders.
2. Give blessings to people-
Studies show that the more you bless other people for having health, wealth, and success, the faster you will get such things. If you see someone has something you want, it is important to wish them more success and prosperity. If for example, you want wealth, and you see someone wealthy, instead of envying that person, you should wish them more wealth and success. You can say, “Isn’t that nice that this person has wealth and lots of money? I wish them more wealth, success, and blessings.” It is crucial that you really mean what you are saying. Do not criticize people for having something you want and desire. If you criticize someone for having money and wealth, you will not get money because you are criticizing it. How can money and wealth come to you if you keep criticizing it?
3. Ask
Ask God for what you want and desire. Let me give you an example, if you want to buy a car, don’t you have to ask the car dealer first before you buy it? If you want to go to college, don’t first have to apply and tell them you want to join? The same thing applies for achieving your goals. You have to ask God to give you whatever you desire. Don’t be shy, ask God and he will answer.
4. Visualization-
Studies have shown that people who visualize, achieve their goals faster since visualizing makes you concentrate on your goals. You should visualize and concentrate on your goals around two times a day for 10 to 15 minutes each time. As Albert Einstein says, “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” Whatever you visualize, you will get in the future. Let me give you an example, there is a student studying for his exam tomorrow. He keeps thinking and imagining that the exam is hard and that he is not going to do well in it. Exam day is here and the student enters the exam room. The teacher gives the student the test and guess what the student finds? You guessed it, the exam is hard just as he imagined. You should know that visualization is a powerful step of getting the law of attraction to work for you.
5. Affirmations-
In order for affirmations to work, you first have to understand and work on controlling your thoughts and emotions, otherwise, if you repeat affirmations all day, you probably won’t get results as you will be saying affirmations without believing in them. Assuming you have already worked on your thoughts and emotions. Through out the day, affirm what you have visualized. Keep your goal in your mind. Remind yourself that you are on the way to success. What is really good about affirmations is that they help keep you focused positively on your goals.
6. Take action-
Without taking action, you accomplish nothing. It is action that produces tangible results. Some people believe they can visualize and achieve all their goals without taking action. Do you think Roger Bannister would have been able to run a mile in less than four minutes if he didn’t take action and if he didn’t train his body? Do you think Bill Gates would have become billionaire if he didn’t put his ideas into action? There is no success, without action, so make sure you learn how to take massive action, so you can achieve whatever you want.
7. Persistence-
How many people do you know that were too close to getting what they want, but they gave up too soon? Unfortunately, many people give up as soon as they face an obstacle. Persistence is the key to achieving your goals.
It is necessary to follow all those steps mentioned, not just one of them to get the law of attraction to work for you.
